The Power of Expectations

My wife and I stayed at a resort where we expected a room with a view but were instead assigned the worst room in the entire place, right in front of the maintenance garage and parking lot. I was disappointed. So I thought about why. It came down to my expectations. If I had simply gone there for business or a conference, I wouldn’t have cared because my expectations would not have included a nice view. But I was there on vacation—and I would pray, read, think, relax, and eat most of my meals on the deck or patio outside…

[ Read More → ]
Living Life Like Everyone Else

I edited a book for Dr. Ed West, who wrote, “A Christian who is exhausted by living life like everyone else should repent and start over.” Think about that.Do you ever get exhausted by living your life like everyone else? Maybe it’s always being busy, busy, busy.Maybe it’s striving for achievement or happiness.Maybe it’s trying to impress others or be an ideal somebody.Maybe it’s buying and paying for things the world says you need.Maybe it’s feeling that you have to do everything and can’t miss anything.Living in these and other ways can indeed become exhausting. The Lord speaks through the…

[ Read More → ]
Why Would God…?

Why does God allow bad things to happen to good people? When people don’t have satisfying answers, they may get mad, bury it, turn away from God, rationalize, or face life with humble faith. When bad things happen, it’s natural for people to ask why. But not all the time. One thing I have found is that the people who live in poor countries or places ravaged by violence and war, the vast majority of people don’t have the same expectations of things being good. They’ve never had that luxury. They expect bad things. God is their hope. When things…

[ Read More → ]
Tribute to God’s Gift to Mankind

Angel, my beloved dog of fourteen and a half years suddenly died in early June. (The vet thought it was a heart attack or stroke.) Our daughter originally got her, and the dog was a lifesaver for her rough times growing up (as my childhood dog was for me). When our daughter went off to college, she let Kim and me keep Angel, who became a surrogate child for us. I’m a pathetic, incorrigible dog lover. Kim came from a country where they ate dogs, but she came to love the dog far more than she ever let on or even…

[ Read More → ]
The Insanity of Crowds

“In individuals, insanity is rare; but in groups, parties, nations and epochs, it is the rule.”– Friedrich Nietzsche We’ve been seeing this play out before our very eyes on college campuses across America. This is not to minimize the suffering going on in Gaza. But never mind the unspeakably horrific situation affecting millions and getting ever worse in our near-neighbor, Haiti. And never mind that recently, incomparably more Muslims were killed by other Muslims in Syria (500,000+), in Yemen (150,000+), in Darfur (400,000), terrorist attacks on other Muslims (200,000+), and females murdered in honor killings (5000 per year). And never mind that…

[ Read More → ]

If you have questions or comments related to this blog, please post them as blog comments rather than emailing me, because others may have similar thoughts, and I can respond to everyone. Yet I welcome emails for more personal questions or comments.

You may disagree with me or dislike what I write. If so, please be respectful in your comments. I reserve the right to delete comments that I determine to be disrespectful, offensive, misleading, or soliciting.

I grant you the right to quote me as long as you give proper credit for what I write. And I reserve the right to quote you and promise to give you proper credit.